Most common things what girl looks for in her ...

[talk2santosh]

More common thing the girl looks for in a future husband... Check up www.shaadi.com. These are few that I saw, you may browse and find out much more in different sites.

• My hobbies include reading, listening to music & painting. looking for a well educated & understanding husband.
  
  
• I am a caring person with respect to elders.
  Looking for well settled ..... boys who will be a friend for a lifetime.
  
  
• My expectation of a life partner is a simple person who is well qualified(Professional degree)withan enterprising job and having a good family background and essentially from my community (....Tulu/Kannada ....).
  
  
• I wish my life partner to be reasonably good looking,qualified & rational in thinking.
  
  
• Iam career oreinted but at the same time do consider family as the most imp aspect of our lives. Iam looking forward for a professionaly qualified life partner to be a freind for a life time. Someone with whom I would like to share everything in life.Someone to be my inspiration and guiding factor of life.
  
  
• Looking for a partner one who is well settled in life from decent family background, & has respect & love towards partner, and also has value for relationship,should be romantic and kind hearted,a good friend, with sense of humour. A partner who would understand and respect my feelings and thoughts.
  
  
• I am looking for a guy who is very simple in his approach towards life, who is self-motivated and also well-settled in life. He should be definitely of my religion - .....only.
  
  
• Very simple,wants to be independent/ working,want a life PARTNER WHO WILL RESPECT MY PROFESSION,VERY JOVIAL AND WHO WILL FACE ALL DIFFICULTIES IN LIFE EASILY
  
  
• Looking for a life partner more like a friend good understanding,graduate enough and respects his elders
  
  
• .With strictly no DOWRY is what she expecting not money but looking for friend who can fight ups & downs of life
  
  

Share your views, why a girl looks for simple qualities in a person... which normally is available in everyone...

[harsha]

Actually this column is the most important in any matrimonial site to short list a boy or a girl.

This column where they write about their expectations.And it is very important to read this column very carefully to understand what he/she is thinking.

Yes everyone wants a simple person .Why??? Everything about marriage seems so much new atleast u want that ur life patner to be simple. Now the word simple stands for (easy to gel or to marry someone like the person they are). So simplicity doesnt mean simple as is as such.

But all the above mentioned things that you have written santosh , each one of us will react to the desires or wants of the lifepatner list differently.Based on this you may also respond or not respond to a certain profile.When the list that you have matches with the list that the girl is with looking for a life patner, then it clicks and then you say "yes" to that person. And either you marry the person and then fall in love or fall in love and then get married.Either case i guess after marriage you realise and explore many qualities about the person which you dont when you are blindly in love before marriage.

Well after marriage may be "Reality bites" , and that is right time to check whether that expectations list is still existing.

Regards
Harsha

[meenalputhran]

Dear Harsha,
I guess after "reality strikes",there are a lot of qualities each partner becomes aware of , some you may like, some you may not
& the expectation list has totally changed
because then you will have new needs, new expectations
i read somewhere all relations are need based
Marriage is a balancing act between having a need & filling one
& Remember nobody is perfect , its all about how much of imperfection you can handle & viceversa

woh bolte hain na "shaadi woh laddu hain jo khhaye toh pachtaye, nahin khhaye to bhi pachtaye"

[talk2santosh]

Few complicated and interesting ones....

• Earn money atleast 25,000/- per month. Must have a good personality, good looking and age not more than 32 years. Should not have any bad habit and criminal background. Height should be 160 cm to 175 cm.
  
  
• Seeking a handsome,compatible,qualified and well-settled professional guy - Traditional at heart and Sophisticated in outlook. Strength of character,truthfulness,a good sense of humour,loving'n'caring and a positive attitude towards life are the qualities I seek in my soulmate.
  
  
• Looking for person who is Financially well settled, Well Educated with Decent family background.
  
  
• I would like a partner who is in a professional field. it would be better if he doesnt smoke and drink. but drink occasionally will do.he sghould be of age between 24-27.
  
• I AM LOOKING FOR A PERSON WHO IS PREFERABLY A COMPUTER PROFESSIONAL/ENGINEER/MBA.
  
  
• I am Looking for person who as well has a respect for humanity and who is understanding, loving and can be a lifetime friend.
  
  
• hi i'm 26 yrs old ambitious girl.a total travel buff ,love watchin' movies reading books,looking for a guy whose down to earth caring,loving and understanding
  
  
• He should be loving, caring and having respect towards women.
  
  
• like outing, Music,and Gardening. Looking for someone who would be my Good friend, who stands by in my good and bad times....and who would be more like a son to my Parents. I expect him to be modern and Zindadily Personality...
  
  
• I BELIVE HONESTY,TRUST,MUTUAL RESPECT ARE ESSENTIAL FOR A SUCCESSFUL LONG TERM REALTIONSHIP. I AM LOOKING FOR A GUY WHO IS UNDERSTANDABLE,COP WITH MY LIFE FOR EACH AND EVERY STEP. FIRST OF ALL HE SHOULD BE BEST FRIEND OF MINE AND GOOD PERSON,AMBITIOUS,DYNAMIC AND GOOD HUMAN BEING, ALSO SHARE HIS JOYS AND SORROWS WITH HIS PARTNER.
  
  
• hi there guys this is rxxxxxa all of 23 yrs n a physiotherapist n a saggitarian born n brought up in mumbai luv life n live it to the fullest like travellin a lot searchin 4 a guy who wud understnd me n my needs n luv me 4 being me i do take time to get nto a relationship n 4 me it wud b the ultimate 1 for life chao ccccccccya
  
  
• Hi guys!!! this is axxxa here funloving person, looking for engineer or qualified business man
  
  
• I AM A DOCTOR ,I AM STUDING FOR POST GRADUATION IN ANAESTHESIOLOGY ,I AM OF WHETISH COMPLEXION , LOOKING FOR PROFESSIONALS , PREPARED TO SETTLED IN ANY PART OF THE WORLD ,